“Are you ready for Christmas,” the clerk asks at the checkout. That innocent question can provoke a myriad of emotions. Especially for those who are struggling with the loss of a family member, chronic illnesses, the empty seat at the table due to an incarcerated loved one, or other difficult situations. The mind screams, “Do I look like I’m ready? I just want to make my purchases and get home!” Holiday music is piping through the store speakers. “It’s the…